Tuesday, March 17, 2009

Sex and Laughter: Surprises!



I love being surprised! The pleasant unexpected is divine. When I have a particular mindset about something or find myself in a quagmire of opinion and thought, there is nothing better than being shocked by the unforeseen.

Lately, I find myself being surprised and aroused by the strangest of things. Most often, I let slip a mild gasp and widen my eyes at the interest that is piqued.

For instance, for the past few days, the muscles in my husband's back have been taking up space in my imagination. I caught a glimpse of him as he was dressing for work, as I laid cozy in bed, and my reaction was intense. The way they curved, sculpted, shifted in accordance to his every move was heavenly. I was mesmerized. All day I found myself wanting to text him a message telling him I missed him. Yes, him. And his back.

Another bizarre attraction lately is scruff and facial hair on men. Historically, I have adored baby faced lads who exuded innocence but perhaps, one would hope, a glimmer of mischief. Think Matt Damon or Chris O'Donnell. You know the type. Yet these goateed men who cross my path have got me thinking very naughty things about whiskers and tender skin and raw emotions and breathlessness. Think Robert Downey Jr. Scandalous!

My other obsession, one which I'd never truly considered, are hands. A man's strong hand, with some callouses on the palm or a stray cuticle, weathered and dry from winter's rage, is so attractive to me. Particularly, I love short, square nails, life lines, love lines, and a firm grasp. Powerful hands equate powerful pleasure to me.

Speaking of hands, my heart will stop, my knees will melt and my mind races when I am led into the room with a hand placed in the small of my back or on my hips. I have never been ultra feminine, but I love that feeling of being protected by someone stronger and bigger. I will swoon on the spot.

These are just but a few of the random things that catch me off guard at a moment's notice and take my mind to places unexpected but exciting. All of these new found attractions are both surprising and arousing to me and with the mundane nature of life, I say bring them on!

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